Kink On Tap 55

Kink On Tap
Episode 55 "Old, Crotchety Communists"

Host(s): Maymay, Emma

Guest(s): Stephen Elliot, Anaiis Flox

Recorded: August 22, 2010

Published: August 28, 2010

Duration: 1:39:35

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Panel

• Maymay (@maymaym)
  • maybemaimed.com
• Emma (@helio_girl)
  • FollowsTheSun.com
• Stephen Elliot (@S___Elliot)
  • TheRumpus.net
• Anaiis Flox (@avflox)
  • SexAndThe405.com

Topics

• the motivation to ask for what you want | Emily Nagoski :: sex nerd ::
• Love makes teen sex less academically harmful, study says - CNN.com
• Sex and Censorship: What Recent Attacks on Online Sex Discussions Have to Do With Your Blog | BlogHer
• Wikileaks founders arrested for rape (EXPRESSEN) (English translation)
• Is sex a human right? (via early to bed)

Notable quotes

• "When you're not open about your sexuality, you lose political power."
  • Stephen Elliott @ 00:00
• "Sadomasochism looks just like Kentucky."
  • Emma, commenting on the Map of Human Sexuality @ 23:15
• "Compromise is when you both wind up with more than either of you would have had if you didn't compromise."
  • Emma @ 28:30
• "There's no bad reason to love a person."
  • Stephen Elliott @ 00:00
• "All things being equal, hypocrites have more options.
  • Stephen Elliott @ 00:00

External references

• The Adderall Diaries: A Memoir of Moods, Masochism, and Murder
• My Girlfriend Comes to the City and Beats Me Up
• Sex for America: Politically Inspired Erotica
• A General Theory of Love (NYT) (NY Times)
• A General Theory of Love, by Daniel Lewis
• Sexual Adultism: The tragedy of youth sexual oppression
  • Maymay references Wendy Whitaker trials, spoken about in this video.
• California Proposition 21 (2000)
• Apple’s App Store Director Sells His Own Fart Apps (Phillip Shoemaker)
• Rumpus Book Club: get advance copies of new books that treat sex in a literary way
• Franklin Veaux's Map of Human Sexuality

Additional links

• Swedish statutes in translation
• The Child in Hard Time

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